#DYKEPROBLEMS

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Thu, 25 Apr 2013 12:40:39 -0400

if it’s straight people:

if it’s other queers:

that one dyke in your social circle

Thu, 25 Apr 2013 12:34:18 -0400

why i don't buy girls drinks

Thu, 25 Apr 2013 12:29:47 -0400

what i say:

but actually:

when i leave the party early...with a hot girl

Fri, 05 Apr 2013 20:04:40 -0400

when the l word returns to netflix streaming

Tue, 26 Mar 2013 22:08:34 -0400

watching straight people debate gay rights

Fri, 15 Feb 2013 12:53:00 -0500

there is no such thing as a lesbian with a penis. dicks are a male organ and transwomen are not one of us. knock off this pomo queer bullshit.

Thu, 07 Feb 2013 23:04:00 -0500

"Did you only join OkCupid to find people to have sex with?"

Fri, 01 Feb 2013 23:13:04 -0500

"but you don't look like a lesb- "

Thu, 24 Jan 2013 00:22:07 -0500

i want to make this PERFECTLY CLEAR

Wed, 23 Jan 2013 23:04:00 -0500

i’ve already gotten a slew of messages in the last five minutes along the lines of “BUT HOW CAN YOU HAVE LESBIAN SEX WITH A PENIS THAT’S BULLSHIT” “I DON’T GET IT” “WHAT” etc

SOME LESBIANS HAVE PENISES

SOME LESBIANS HAVE AMBIGUOUS GENITALIA

SOME MEMBERS OF THE LESBIAN COMMUNITY MAY ALSO IDENTIFY AS SOMETHING BESIDES ‘LESBIAN’ AND THAT’S OKAY

as a mod here, i find myself relying mostly on submissions because my experience doesn’t necessarily align with a lot of the typical things that might be “lesbian problems” - i’m a masculine genderqueer person who disagrees with most of the things exalted in mainstream gay politics - and i gotta say, a good deal of the submissions i get are SUPER CISSEXIST and y’all need to stop

like no i am not going to publish your submissions about how penises are really gross (EVEN THOUGH I HAVE RECEIVED SIX VARIATIONS ON THAT THEME), that’s not okay and we should recognize as a community that it’s not okay

"but it's not real sex without a penis"

Wed, 23 Jan 2013 22:41:00 -0500

note: you can have lesbian/queer sex with a penis, yes, but if you’re a a person who has said this or any number of similar statements, you need to stop qualifying certain types of sex by your hegemonic bullshit

when jodie foster finally comes out

Sun, 13 Jan 2013 22:20:03 -0500

when someone says something homophobic on the internet

Sat, 12 Jan 2013 20:36:26 -0500

that one time i tried being hetero

Sat, 12 Jan 2013 15:49:40 -0500

listening to my straight friends talk about boys

Sat, 12 Jan 2013 15:30:30 -0500

as a butch, getting feminine clothes for christmas

Wed, 26 Dec 2012 14:59:35 -0500

when she says she's not looking for a girlfriend...but she is looking for a fuckbuddy

Wed, 26 Dec 2012 14:28:25 -0500

when my conservative relatives start debating gay marriage

Wed, 26 Dec 2012 13:23:00 -0500

making eye contact with the only other lesbian at the holiday party

Wed, 26 Dec 2012 13:19:12 -0500

going home for the holidays when you're not out

Mon, 17 Dec 2012 20:46:01 -0500

relatives trying to set you up with their friends’ sons

your grandmother says you deserve a nice young man

your mother commends you for not being boy crazy